Two of the ‘Pilgrim Fathers’ with the Dean of Canterbury Cathedral, Reverend Robert Willis
A group of fathers calling themselves ‘victims of the family court system’ have completed a week-long pilgrimage to Canterbury Cathedral to hand their petition to the Dean.
Thomas Judge, who’s from York, and Matt Thompson, who’s from Brentwood, are calling for changes to the family courts to make sure that parents with contact orders can see their children.
For Matt Thompson, walking up to 20 miles a day wasn’t easy, but it was worth it for this cause:
“On Wednesday, I was walking on my own. I’d been going for so long, my legs felt numb, but that was fine, because it reminded me of how I had felt during the court process myself.
“I really felt like my children were walking with me, then.”
The Family Court, which deals with cases of family disputes and childcare, is exempt from many of the regulations imposed on criminal courts. But, according to the Pilgrim Fathers, this lack of regulation and monitoring has led to some families being torn apart, and parents being denied the right to see their children, despite possessing valid court orders to that effect.
The fathers’ petition is demanding two changes be made to the Family Court system: that they enforce Court Orders for Contact, and that they keep records of the children whose cases they address. Currently, once a contact order has been made, the family court does not monitor the situation, to make sure the rules are being adhered to.
All of this means that some parents are being kept away from seeing or contacting their children, on the basis of unproven allegations.
The walk, which started at the Royal Courts of Justice in London, lasted all week, with three of the five core ‘pilgrims’ having to pull out due to other commitments, blisters, or even just exhaustion.
“One of our guys had to pull out early because he’s on probation, for sending a birthday card to his children.” Thomas Judge told the Times. “That’s how ridiculous this has become. It’s child abuse.
“We do think there is some sexism in the family courts, but that doesn’t mean this is just fathers: we’ve seen mothers treated this way as well.”
“I think this is a timely issue:” Mr Thompson told the Times: “In an age where people are bemoaning the lack of male role models in this country… for me, those were my father, and my grandfather. Now, that’s something that my children, and thousands of others across the country, are being kept from.”
The Dean of Canterbury Cathedral, the Very Reverend Robert Willis, took the petition from the two men on the grounds of the Cathedral on behalf of the Archbishop, who was in Lambeth Palace at the time.
“We are always happy to welcome Pilgrims to this Cathedral. We have a lot of people around at the minute, but not many who’ve come as far as you have!
This is a fantastic place to come to talk about family. I will make sure this petition gets into the Archbishop’s hands.”
The Pilgrim Fathers have vowed to repeat their march, on an even bigger scale, next year.